Blessed with requriements
Thick Lips
Wide Hips
Woman, Am I?
I am no Diva
I am no Queen
I am no Princess
Woman, Am I?
I sweat
I cry
I smell
Woman, Am I?
Aggressive with the boys
Aggressive against the girls
Aggression is me
Woman, Am I?
Sex on my mind
Pick a boy that is all types of fine
No need to lock him down to be just mine
Woman, Am I?
Not in looks
My pride's source
Is the knowledge gained from books
And the risks I have took
Woman, Am I?
I love humanly
I bleed monthly
I think deeply
Woman, Am I?
Showing posts with label Female. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Female. Show all posts
Monday, December 22, 2008
Tuesday, December 16, 2008
Pornographic actress honoring...
In his song "Hurt Me Soul", Lupe Fiasco highlights ..." all the world's ills...", and one of which was, as the title reads, "...pornographic actress honoring."
Firstly, I feel my advocacy for the female practitioner of the adult entertainment consortium, is not based on a hidden life soaked in lust and sinful endeavors, but is steeped in my effort to uplift the female gender in all arenas.
Pornographic actresses are usually linked to nymphomania, drug addiction, and other forms of recklessness. Is there mention of the good? Rarely. Entrepreneurship, tough skin, steadfastness is never mentioned.
It is a profession, just as my profession. I am an accountant; they do adult movies, no difference. We are both in a control environment with co-workers that whisper gossip, annoying supervisors, and "office" modus operandi that seems never to be realistically applicable.
So why not honor them? If I have done outstanding work that is beyond the level of any other CPA in the country, should I not win a "CPA of the Year" Award?
And there should be no difference in the adult industry, so support the 2009 AVN Awards, this upcoming January. Support female empowerment!
Firstly, I feel my advocacy for the female practitioner of the adult entertainment consortium, is not based on a hidden life soaked in lust and sinful endeavors, but is steeped in my effort to uplift the female gender in all arenas.
Pornographic actresses are usually linked to nymphomania, drug addiction, and other forms of recklessness. Is there mention of the good? Rarely. Entrepreneurship, tough skin, steadfastness is never mentioned.
It is a profession, just as my profession. I am an accountant; they do adult movies, no difference. We are both in a control environment with co-workers that whisper gossip, annoying supervisors, and "office" modus operandi that seems never to be realistically applicable.
So why not honor them? If I have done outstanding work that is beyond the level of any other CPA in the country, should I not win a "CPA of the Year" Award?
And there should be no difference in the adult industry, so support the 2009 AVN Awards, this upcoming January. Support female empowerment!
The Many Things Associated to Sexuality: "Women in Porn"
Back to the topic on hand:
The Many Things Associated to Sexuality
This sub topic will be a "two-parter" composed of "Women in Porn" and "Women and Porn"
At first, I thought all women that took up employment in the adult industry was result of the unfortantue descent from modeling or acting, for the money (hard times and the rent is due), by the maniputlation of a man, or any other negative circumstance that you can impute, but some make a decisive move to start career, like any industry.
I was having a discussion with a young man that works for me. He made a point about how if he meets a porn star that he feels that he would be able to engage in a sexual act easiler than witha typical woman. Basically, there is negative connation, just not by him, but will most men even woment, that think since these women and men have sex for a "living" they would easily partake in these acts in their private life. I don't think it is the case. Actually, I would think they would be more prude because they are not getting paid.
Porn is not as easy as it seems. Check out this video interview on YouTube of Jazmine Cashmere:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TMbLyS7CwGc. Think about this, you might have to have sex with someone you are not attracted to, there is alot of acting that needs to be done.
Peace before all,
Ashley
The Many Things Associated to Sexuality
This sub topic will be a "two-parter" composed of "Women in Porn" and "Women and Porn"
At first, I thought all women that took up employment in the adult industry was result of the unfortantue descent from modeling or acting, for the money (hard times and the rent is due), by the maniputlation of a man, or any other negative circumstance that you can impute, but some make a decisive move to start career, like any industry.
I was having a discussion with a young man that works for me. He made a point about how if he meets a porn star that he feels that he would be able to engage in a sexual act easiler than witha typical woman. Basically, there is negative connation, just not by him, but will most men even woment, that think since these women and men have sex for a "living" they would easily partake in these acts in their private life. I don't think it is the case. Actually, I would think they would be more prude because they are not getting paid.
Porn is not as easy as it seems. Check out this video interview on YouTube of Jazmine Cashmere:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TMbLyS7CwGc. Think about this, you might have to have sex with someone you are not attracted to, there is alot of acting that needs to be done.
Peace before all,
Ashley
Sunday, December 14, 2008
Absurdity of it all: I am comfortable with my sexuality
Disclaimer: This is not an intolerant bash or a coming out party, but simply a celebration of being a woman!!..:
Why every time I say the words, "I am comfortable with my sexuality!" It is followed by questions of my sexual orientation! Are lesbians the only women that are truly comfortable with their sexuality? And if straight women are comfortable with their sexuality does that mean they are branded with the whore label (Check the test Women vs Whores)
Well, you are not looking at a whore in me. Sexuality doesn't just mean sex, sexiness, and any and everything dealing with sexual organs. Sexuality is the way in which one carries oneself in situations that are concern with individuals of attractiveness.
I think there are many unsatisfied women in relationships and marriages because they don't understand their sexuality and its value to themselves and those who "love" them. Why is this, because it is still taboo in 2008 for women to explore there inner sexuality without negative commentary. There has been much criticism of the Muslim faith for "forcing" women to wear hijabs , but it least their restriction of female sexuality is overt. In American culture, the main critics of the Muslim faith, the restriction female sexuality is more serve and covert.We are told we are beautiful in any form but we are told that we can't express it or if so, it's at the risk of negative labels. We are told that we have to keep are husbands happy at any cost, but He has no obligation to keep us happy.
No wonder lesbians are so happy and satisfied, there is no standard, rather double standard, only if all women can own a small portion of this confident and all men can help in aiding all women in expressing their sexuality.
Why every time I say the words, "I am comfortable with my sexuality!" It is followed by questions of my sexual orientation! Are lesbians the only women that are truly comfortable with their sexuality? And if straight women are comfortable with their sexuality does that mean they are branded with the whore label (Check the test Women vs Whores)
Well, you are not looking at a whore in me. Sexuality doesn't just mean sex, sexiness, and any and everything dealing with sexual organs. Sexuality is the way in which one carries oneself in situations that are concern with individuals of attractiveness.
I think there are many unsatisfied women in relationships and marriages because they don't understand their sexuality and its value to themselves and those who "love" them. Why is this, because it is still taboo in 2008 for women to explore there inner sexuality without negative commentary. There has been much criticism of the Muslim faith for "forcing" women to wear hijabs , but it least their restriction of female sexuality is overt. In American culture, the main critics of the Muslim faith, the restriction female sexuality is more serve and covert.We are told we are beautiful in any form but we are told that we can't express it or if so, it's at the risk of negative labels. We are told that we have to keep are husbands happy at any cost, but He has no obligation to keep us happy.
No wonder lesbians are so happy and satisfied, there is no standard, rather double standard, only if all women can own a small portion of this confident and all men can help in aiding all women in expressing their sexuality.
Saturday, December 13, 2008
Women vs. Whores
Women vs. Whores
What is the difference?In my opinion...The difference is tucked away in...Amount of sexual encounters is not the deciding factor in the litmus test for whore-domWhat are the overall objectives?
The tests are:
1)How you present yourself
2) Is it sex(external occurrence) or your sexuality(personal ownership)Whores have sex; Women engage in acts that express their sexuality
3)Money Are you engaging in sex for money (unless it is your profession), popularity, to get a record deal, to get in to parties, for Jordans, to ride around in his fancy car, to get in to the vip, if so, you might be a whore…
Whores are sources readily used by others for pleasure;
Women are sources of pleasure, who are aware of self in a way that creates fulfillment for herself and her partner.
Peace before all,
Ashley
What is the difference?In my opinion...The difference is tucked away in...Amount of sexual encounters is not the deciding factor in the litmus test for whore-domWhat are the overall objectives?
The tests are:
1)How you present yourself
2) Is it sex(external occurrence) or your sexuality(personal ownership)Whores have sex; Women engage in acts that express their sexuality
3)Money Are you engaging in sex for money (unless it is your profession), popularity, to get a record deal, to get in to parties, for Jordans, to ride around in his fancy car, to get in to the vip, if so, you might be a whore…
Whores are sources readily used by others for pleasure;
Women are sources of pleasure, who are aware of self in a way that creates fulfillment for herself and her partner.
Peace before all,
Ashley
The Many Things Associated with Sexuality
Sex, Sexuality, Sensual, Getting Freaky...
Image, Slut, Whore, Good Girl, Sin...
Sexuality and the concept of having sex is always a hard topic to tackle. This topic is a personal favorite, because what is more intimate to a person's character then their sexuality, their sexual wants and needs.
Sexuality, also prompts conversion of sin, hell, and God's shame.
I entered the domain of sexualism, 2 years and 6 days ago. Why? Because I realized if I didn't start soon, I would end up a 40 year old virgin, with ease. So I commence my realization of sexuality with ordered decisiveness.
I will be completely honest, at first, I didn't see the hype. I couldn't see why many fiend for sex, why someone would pay for sex, or why the adult industry was so lucrative.
Sexuality is not something bequeath from the air, but is developed overtime building upon the foundation of genetics. In this series, I will talk about my own experience, taboos, pornography, gender roles, and other topics.
Peace before all,
Ashley
Image, Slut, Whore, Good Girl, Sin...
Sexuality and the concept of having sex is always a hard topic to tackle. This topic is a personal favorite, because what is more intimate to a person's character then their sexuality, their sexual wants and needs.
Sexuality, also prompts conversion of sin, hell, and God's shame.
I entered the domain of sexualism, 2 years and 6 days ago. Why? Because I realized if I didn't start soon, I would end up a 40 year old virgin, with ease. So I commence my realization of sexuality with ordered decisiveness.
I will be completely honest, at first, I didn't see the hype. I couldn't see why many fiend for sex, why someone would pay for sex, or why the adult industry was so lucrative.
Sexuality is not something bequeath from the air, but is developed overtime building upon the foundation of genetics. In this series, I will talk about my own experience, taboos, pornography, gender roles, and other topics.
Peace before all,
Ashley
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