The Many Things Associated to Sexuality: "Women in Porn"

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The Many Things Associated to Sexuality
This sub topic will be a "two-parter" composed of "Women in Porn" and "Women and Porn"

At first, I thought all women that took up employment in the adult industry was result of the unfortantue descent from modeling or acting, for the money (hard times and the rent is due), by the maniputlation of a man, or any other negative circumstance that you can impute, but some make a decisive move to start career, like any industry.

I was having a discussion with a young man that works for me. He made a point about how if he meets a porn star that he feels that he would be able to engage in a sexual act easiler than witha typical woman. Basically, there is negative connation, just not by him, but will most men even woment, that think since these women and men have sex for a "living" they would easily partake in these acts in their private life. I don't think it is the case. Actually, I would think they would be more prude because they are not getting paid.

Porn is not as easy as it seems. Check out this video interview on YouTube of Jazmine Cashmere:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TMbLyS7CwGc. Think about this, you might have to have sex with someone you are not attracted to, there is alot of acting that needs to be done.

Peace before all,
Ashley

Absurdity of it all: I am comfortable with my sexuality

Disclaimer: This is not an intolerant bash or a coming out party, but simply a celebration of being a woman!!..:
Why every time I say the words, "I am comfortable with my sexuality!" It is followed by questions of my sexual orientation! Are lesbians the only women that are truly comfortable with their sexuality? And if straight women are comfortable with their sexuality does that mean they are branded with the whore label (Check the test Women vs Whores)

Well, you are not looking at a whore in me. Sexuality doesn't just mean sex, sexiness, and any and everything dealing with sexual organs. Sexuality is the way in which one carries oneself in situations that are concern with individuals of attractiveness.

I think there are many unsatisfied women in relationships and marriages because they don't understand their sexuality and its value to themselves and those who "love" them. Why is this, because it is still taboo in 2008 for women to explore there inner sexuality without negative commentary. There has been much criticism of the Muslim faith for "forcing" women to wear hijabs , but it least their restriction of female sexuality is overt. In American culture, the main critics of the Muslim faith, the restriction female sexuality is more serve and covert.We are told we are beautiful in any form but we are told that we can't express it or if so, it's at the risk of negative labels. We are told that we have to keep are husbands happy at any cost, but He has no obligation to keep us happy.

No wonder lesbians are so happy and satisfied, there is no standard, rather double standard, only if all women can own a small portion of this confident and all men can help in aiding all women in expressing their sexuality.

Women vs. Whores

Women vs. Whores
What is the difference?In my opinion...The difference is tucked away in...Amount of sexual encounters is not the deciding factor in the litmus test for whore-domWhat are the overall objectives?

The tests are:
1)How you present yourself

2) Is it sex(external occurrence) or your sexuality(personal ownership)Whores have sex; Women engage in acts that express their sexuality

3)Money Are you engaging in sex for money (unless it is your profession), popularity, to get a record deal, to get in to parties, for Jordans, to ride around in his fancy car, to get in to the vip, if so, you might be a whore…


Whores are sources readily used by others for pleasure;

Women are sources of pleasure, who are aware of self in a way that creates fulfillment for herself and her partner.

Peace before all,

Ashley

The Many Things Associated with Sexuality

Sex, Sexuality, Sensual, Getting Freaky...
Image, Slut, Whore, Good Girl, Sin...

Sexuality and the concept of having sex is always a hard topic to tackle. This topic is a personal favorite, because what is more intimate to a person's character then their sexuality, their sexual wants and needs.

Sexuality, also prompts conversion of sin, hell, and God's shame.

I entered the domain of sexualism, 2 years and 6 days ago. Why? Because I realized if I didn't start soon, I would end up a 40 year old virgin, with ease. So I commence my realization of sexuality with ordered decisiveness.

I will be completely honest, at first, I didn't see the hype. I couldn't see why many fiend for sex, why someone would pay for sex, or why the adult industry was so lucrative.

Sexuality is not something bequeath from the air, but is developed overtime building upon the foundation of genetics. In this series, I will talk about my own experience, taboos, pornography, gender roles, and other topics.

Peace before all,

Ashley